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Chapter 6: For Thy More Sweet Understanding

Janie wakes up from a dream that told her something’s coming today. Livy, her make-believe playmate, visits her. Her first menstrual period happens at school. Being a modern child, Janie knows all about menstruation, but she’s embarrassed by the teachers and the teasing of her friends and has no idea why it’s called a curse. After she goes to her mother for comfort and information, the circle holds a menarche ritual for her and makes her a member.

  • The chapter title comes from Shakespeare’s Love’s Labour’s Lost (I, i, 263). It refers most directly to Janie’s catechism, when she shows that she understands quite a lot about the Goddess religion.
  • Janie is still a little girl in this chapter. She will become a preteen and start driving her mother crazy in later chapters. She is a natural psychic and a smart kid.
  • “Something’s coming.” The song Tony sings at the beginning of Bernstein and Sondheim’s West Side Story. Love is coming to Tony. Life is coming to Janie.
  • Menstruation is still seen as “the curse.” We may see pad and tampon ads on TV nowadays, but all they ever hold is blue water. Actual blood remains unmentionable. Janie’s friends at school are over-sophisticated and very naïve at the same time.
  • God’s curse on Eve: Genesis 3:16 (Authorized Version). Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and they desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
  • Joe LaRocca is the owner of the Scarecrow Bookstore in Belmont Shore (the famous shopping area in Long Beach), where Milly works part time. He will play an important role in Milly’s story (chapter 12) and also appear in chapters 16, 17, and 26. He’s another good man. The Scarecrow is of course a reference to the character in The Wizard of Oz.
  • I made it much easier for Janie to take the bus from Fountain Valley to Belmont Shore than it is in real life. In real life, she’d have to transfer two or three times. I know this from experience.
  • The catechism that the crones give Janie explains in “teen witch” terms who the Goddess is and gives some basic thealogy. Janie’s braided cord is not only her personal symbol but is also a metaphor for how the lives of these women are braided together and how the stories in this novel are braided together. The neatness of her cord contrasts with the chaotic tangles of yarn owned by the Norns (see chapter 22).
  • Mikhail Gorbachev (b. 1931) was the last general secretary of the Communist Party and the Soviet Union’s last head of state. In 1987, President Reagan said, “Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall,” and the Berlin Wall was demolished in November, 1989. Change, indeed.
  • “Just as the twig is bent, the tree’s inclined” is a line from one of Alexander Pope’s Moral Essays The phrase has been turned into a cliché of child rearing.
  • Emma Clare’s paranoia about being outed as a witch (which Herta shares to a slightly lesser degree) is also foreshadowed here. It’s true that many modern witches still live “in the broomcloset” so they can keep their jobs, get child support, etc. Emma Clare’s fear will be a major element of later stories.
  • To cast the circle for the ritual, Herta uses “a willow withe as thick as her thumb and as long as her arm from elbow to outstretched forefinger.” This is the “traditional” witch’s wand. In the final paragraph of chapter 26, Milly will use the same wand to cast the final circle.
Discussion questions:
  1. Think about the day you start menstruating. How did you feel, physically and emotionally? What did you already know about it? Were you teased?
  2. Did you have an invisible friend when you were young? Who was this person? Is he or she still around?
  3. What else besides long division, fleas, and brussels sprouts did the Goddess NOT invent?

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